Boredom

I'm so tired. Matt's at a fundraiser and Ash is asleep. I need to clean but yea it's not happening right now..LOL. That little boys mom never did come by. I really hope she isn't just taking it lightly. The boy said he was being teased every day from that boy. It's only the 3rd grade!! It can't be good for him!! I talked to Zach's teacher and she said to try and find the boy's address (shouldn't be hard to do since I walked him home..lol) then give it to her. I already have the boys teachers name. And then if I see him again try and get the other boys name. She said she'd talk to the teacher and see if they can't determine which boy it is (that's if I can't find the addy or the name) And they will keep an eye on him. I wasn't sure how involved to get in fact I really don't want to get too involved it should be the mom who is involved. But I wanted to ask the teacher first to see what she thought. So hopefully this way the teacher will keep a better eye on him and keep the teasing from happening at least at school. Out of school there is nothing they can do. Where does a 3rd grader learn how to be bully?? You guessed it his parents. It's just an awful situation. And one I hope that Zach won't have to go through. As of right now Zach is liked by all the kids but this is Kindergarten. Zach does get his feelings hurt absolutely easily and I'm so afraid that he'll get picked on later.

Awww man!!

I just realized that when I changed my skin I lost all of my comments :( :(

Wow time has flown

My SIL just sent me her blog link and it inspired me to at least try and keep up with my own. It's been nearly a year since I posted though. I usually use myspace..lol. Today I did nothing. Literally nothing. I have a buttload to do but I feel like arse. I quit smoking and I feel tired and cranky and I'm coughing. I forgot how fun this stage of quitting was...LOL. Matt and I went to pick up Zach from school today. It's so much like a high school there. Not in the actually school but with all the parents standing in there little cliche's I fit in nowhere. I hate picking him up. I feel so out of place. Most of my friends don't have children or if they do they have them Ashlee's age so I don't know anyone there. And you can't just join up with another group they deflect outsiders. Sounds silly I know. But I've seen them do it. Even Matt remarked on how that happens. At any rate so I was standing with matt and Ash and Zach's class came out. He apparently has been doing really good in his journal. They have these little journals they have to write and draw in everyday and Zach has been just scribbling in his. Well the teachers told us during Parent-Teacher Conferences that he should be doing more in there and they explained what it is they expect out of him. So we sat him down and long story short he's not drawing pictures with a story to go withit!! I'm so proud of him!!! On the way home we were all talking Zach as ususal was up ahead running home (that boy is FAST) well the crossing guard all of the sudden said "BOYS CUT IT OUT" and 2 boys pass us arguing. One was taunting the other one. Well I look over and the little boy whose being teased was crying and so upset he couldn't ride. So I got down to his level and asked him if he was ok. He was in the 3rd grade. I asked him if he wanted me to walk him home and he said yes so Matt and the kids went on ahead and I walked this little boy home. He was crying most of the way. I managed to cheer him up before we got him but once he saw his mom he broke down again. He said his mom thinks everyone is nice to him at school and from what he had told me this boy was pretty much a regular bully to him. Pushing him off his bike and making fun of him in recess. I asked him how he handled it did he get upset and cry everytime. And he said yes I said well you can't do that. He said well my mom said it was natural to cry I told him it was but that he couldn't show that boy how much it was upsetting him or the boy would never stop. I told his mom where he lived and hopefully she'll come talk to me once he calms down to get the whole story about what the boy was saying on the way home. I also really hope that she will talk to the boys parents and make them aware of how there son is behaving.